14 Reasons Why George And Amal Will Be Super Parents
It's easy to think that celebs won't be good parents. After all, it's hard enough for people not in the spotlight to balance parenthood and jobs/life. But sometimes, famous people have a much harder time being parents since they are faced with dealing with the paparazzi as well as having all eyes on them 24/7. They have to worry about shielding their kids from the public eye and all that unwanted attention. Some are more successful than others at doing this, but it's always a huge challenge. Parenthood always has its ups and downs, and that's true whether or not you're famous. Some celebrities just really have their crap together. We can just tell that they will be amazing parents. Most of us can think of a few celebrities who fit this bill of being good people who will probably make good parents. Two that come to mind (and will soon be joining the parenting world) are George Clooney and Amal Alamuddin-Clooney. Here are 15 reasons why George and Amal will be super parents.
14 They Are Mature
First of all, young people can be good parents -- they often do a great job and have youth and energy on their side. But the advantage of older couples being parents is that they have lived all the adult experiences that they wanted to on their own terms. They now have additional experiences that can contribute to their new life as parents. There will also be no resentment after the baby arrives that they can't travel immediately or do the things they could do before being responsible for a baby. They also know themselves on a deeper level and therefore have more to offer their baby. This is also true if the couple has gotten the chance to travel the world. Since it's clear that George and Amal are super mature and have definitely traveled, we think they will be the best parents ever, and we can't wait to see what they do.
13 They Do Charity Work And Can Show Their Kids How To Give Back
Both George and Amal in this dynamic relationship have done lots of charitable work and continue to do so. They truly believe in giving back to those less fortunate in the world and fight for justice for these individuals. Amal does this in her legal work and other charitable causes that she supports, and George does this as well in his work by directing and also acting in many films that have strong political and social messages. His films also include lots of commentary on what is happening in the world and what we are doing to fix things or unfortunately make them worse. George also does charitable work and has his favorite causes that help out people who may not be heard otherwise. The charitable organization he started called “Not On Our Watch” with some fellow actors and friends, helps victims of war and genocide in Darfur, Sudan. George has personally spoken with victims from these areas and his charity has raised a lot of money to help them in rebuilding their lives.
12 They Understand The Idea Of "Paying It Forward"
This couple has the “pay it forward” mentality, which is where they desire to do good turns for others as others have done for them. Presumably they had their struggles in their personal lives growing up but had people who helped them along the way realize their personal and career dreams. Now George and Amal want to pass forward that energy and positivity to other people who may not have the same opportunities to start and go down the right path. They will most likely be parents who will teach their children not to expect something just because of who they are, but to do good and help others out a little more as they will undoubtedly have the extra personal and financial resources to do it. They will also learn that when one has love and abundance, it is best to share with others who may not have this and who are struggling.
11 They Are Happy And In Love
When two people start out with genuine love and respect for one another and are able to maintain that love and respect, it bodes well for them as parents. They can show their kids the compassion and care that they deserve. Kids need to learn to show and accept love. Kids also need to learn limits with their parents set in a loving way. When two adults are able to show love to one another in a mature and healthy way, the future looks bright for them as parents. In general, loving couples communicate well, have personal boundaries that the other respects, and just know how to teach their kids how love works by living the example themselves. When kids see their parents in love and happy, they will most likely be happier and loving kids. They will also most likely become kids who go on to become loving and happy parents themselves and teach that to their own children.
10 They Are Forgiving
Kids need to learn how to forgive others and be forgiven in turn. They can only learn this if they have two parents who teach them this by showing that when they have a fight or disagreement, they can learn to forgive one another in a respectful and courteous manner. Yes, all people make mistakes and have moments they may wish they could take back with other adults or their children, but then again, a truly forgiving person will start by forgiving themselves first and then going from them to ask others to forgive them. George and Amal are two people who clearly are strong, have good communication with one another, and forgive others while being respectful of others in the media. They would definitively be the type of parents who would pass down appreciation for those in their life. They would also be the type to teach their children the true meaning of the word “sorry” and when/why it needs to be said.
9 They Have Great Senses Of Humor
Laughter is an important thing for any couple or family. Having a sense of humor is mandatory when facing stressful or uncertain situations. It means making the best of a situation, or if it is mildly inconvenient, learning to laugh at it and move on to a place where better things will start happening. Laughter helps reduce stress and worry and helps people learn to cope with uncertainty and stress of all kinds of things. Parents who can set up this example will have an easier time with their kids and within their families. This is a good thing for all people to practice (not only those who are parents or who are looking to become parents). It will also help in managing marital issues more effectively. Couples that laugh together more often tend to stay together, and this also bodes well for parenthood as the couple has each other to turn to when raising their children.
8 They Are Discreet
Discretion is something all parents show their kids at one point or another. Why is it important? Well, it's definitely an important life skill. If people can't mind their own business and keep to their own affairs, it may mean trouble down the line in all areas of life; school, friendships, relationships, and a job. Where do kids pick up discretion and managing to keep their opinions to themselves unless they are being asked to share them? From their parents, of course. That is why is mandatory that adults who are parents already have this skill and practice it. George and Amal are not gossipy or showy people. They go about their business respectively towards others and are very discreet when it comes to their relationship. They were even that way with their pregnancy announcement. This bodes well for the future Clooney twins and the way the media will hopefully follow suit when they are born.
7 They Don't Take Parenthood Lightly
When asked about their desire to have children, both George and Amal have said that they are super excited. When asked how many children they wanted, they admitted to one as they feel that would be challenging enough with their life. Just from that statement, we can definitely see that they know that parenthood is not something to be taken lightly or on a whim. The fact that both of them have waited to have kids means that they wanted to make sure they were both ready for this huge step. It is gigantic, and once a parent, well, you're always a parent. You can't go back. Most of us, parents or not, gained even more respect for George and Amal due to their maturity when contemplating children and the timing of it. It takes a mature person to realize how important being responsible for another human life is. It also takes someone willing to admit that there are moments they may feel nervous or afraid. This is all normal. Admitting this, means the adults, George and Amal, are being super realistic.
6 They Waited Until They Were Ready To Settle Down
Another way that George and Amal will be super parents is that they have waited until they were truly ready to settle down, commit to each other, and start a family. This is not to say that a woman or man cannot be great moms or dads and be single. Lots of single parents out there, famous or not, are doing wonderful jobs raising healthy and well-adjusted children. Some of them are doing an even better job than a family that has two parents. It is just much harder to do so since raising kids is challenging. Holding down a job and building a career is challenging too. If adults have help around them with partners and/or family, it makes parenting a lot easier and less stressful. George and Amal waited until they were comfortably settled in their relationship before conceiving. It looks like they are already on the right track for making parenthood a little less stressful.
5 They Have Friends With Kids
Both George and Amal have many friends who are parents so they have an idea what having kids is like… although they won't know exactly what it is like until their own little darlings arrive. But it's not like they are going into parenthood totally oblivious to the changes that parenting brings to a relationship. George has the example of Brad Pitt and Matt Damon to see how parenting changed their lives, and Amal has the example of her friends. Yes, in the past George emphatically stated he did not want children, but obviously falling in love with Amal has changed his mind. The couple are both very realistic and intelligent people who most likely asked around and did their research on what bringing up a child will entail. They have their heads on their shoulders and we are sure their children will too. It is an exciting time in the waiting and baby prep stage.
4 They Are Nervous And Scared
The fact that this famous couple is nervous and scared about parenthood shows that they are realistic about what being a mom and dad means. It can be easy at times, hard at others, and definitely never, ever boring. They don't claim to have all the answers to how they will parent and what they will do. They are simply in the process of figuring out how they will parent and know that it will be a process of give and take, and learning and leaving then learning again. At first, they were a little nervous when they found out they were having not one, but two babies. The prospect can be daunting to any parent-to-be, whether or not they already have children or not. For newcomers to parenthood, it is a little more stressful to be sure. But the fact that they are looking ahead and seeing that there will be possible difficult moments, means they are realistic. They will be excellent parents due to that realism.
3 They Have A Network Of Family And Friends
If anyone has a good network of people rooting for them and their babies, it's George and Amal. They have doting first time grandparents on both sides of the families, friends offering to help with advice and maybe even babysitting, and they know they can reach out to these people for support. This is probably the most important thing. They will not be feeling isolated in their parenting as a result and will know they have people they can turn to for all kinds of help. There will be lots of questions they will have in the beginning. It does matter how big or small your income bracket is. Kids are a totally different thing than anything else a person has ever done. That is why having a wealth of people to turn to for help is so important to one's mental health and well-being. It will also be something that will be important to them in their marriage.
2 They Are Dealing With The Surprise Of Twins
Lots of couples would be completely overwhelmed by the idea of having twins. Having one baby is a lot for the vast majority of us. We read about how it changes everything and what we need to do. Twins double all that hard work and create a lot of change. This could understandably send a lot of couples into anxiety mode and maybe even some additional stress over how they will deal with multiple feedings, changings, and caring needs. George and Amal took everything in stride, however, and are choosing to see that they are doubly blessed in soon bringing two children into the world. They even said they spoke of having two kids, one of each, and now that it is happening all at once, they can have their family completed immediately. This is a mature way to look at things, and with their respect for one another and those around them, they will most likely bring up their children in this same way.
1 They Won't Have Money Issues
Of course, you don't have to be a millionaire or billionaire to have children. Anyone can and has done it. Also, money does not buy happiness, of course. But… having money and financial stability means that your children will be well provided for, and that is one less worry off your parenting list. It does not have to exorbitant amounts, but as a parent, you know your child will be fine should something tragic occur to you or your partner. George and Amal have the financial part all ironed out and know that their children will want for nothing. Most likely they will protect them due to the money and what it could cause, but at least they know that once their children are taught important life lessons on how to be happy and healthy and show love, they will also be well provided for. Now we just can't wait to see those adorable twins!