15 Best 'To Catch A Cheater' Moments
Cheating on your partner is one of those indiscretions that not a lot of couples can recover from. For many, breaking trust in such a significant way often leads people to think that they can no longer trust their partner again - and while it may be possible to forgive, many people have a difficult time forgetting what the other person did. In a lot of situations where someone suspects their partners of being unfaithful, people often try to find evidence of infidelity before confronting their significant other, so that they're certain that they aren't just over-reacting and making false assumptions about what their partner is getting up to. Sometimes, people snoop around themselves, and other times, they use other means to find out if, in fact, they're being cheated on.
For some people, setting up their partners so they can see with their own two eyes if they're faithful or not is the only way for them to really feel like they have solid proof of what's going on in their relationship. This is where the show To Catch A Cheater comes in. While the show has only been on Youtube for about a year, they've exposed so many people, from partners who have a wandering eye, to those who are just not even trying to be faithful to their significant others. Check out the best moments so far that we've compiled below:
15 This Guy's Girlfriend Was Getting More Than A Workout
It isn't uncommon for people to go to the gym. Our society puts such a high value on people who look physically fit, and not even because it's a sign that they're living a healthy lifestyle - some people just really care if you've got a hot body! If your partner isn't feeling like they look their best, they might want to start going to the gym, which shouldn't raise any red flags, unless perhaps, you know that they're really into people who work out?
For this guest of the show, he had to watch his girlfriend flirting with someone who offered to help her workout. Of course, when two sweaty bodies are involved in physical activity, a lot of innuendo can get thrown around, which is fine - unless you're in a relationship with someone else.
14 This Woman's Boyfriend Said He's Not A Liar
When this woman asked for help from To Catch A Cheater to see if her boyfriend was susceptible to being unfaithful, she wasn't at all expecting what she saw. In the hidden camera footage, as the decoy walked over to her boyfriend to chat and flirt, he seemed all too excited for their interaction, and at no point told the other woman that he was already involved with someone else.
In fact, when the woman asked him if he'd like to hang out some time, he responded by saying that “Any time after 5pm” would be a great time for him. Of course, this is because his girlfriend works nights, meaning that she'd be unavailable during that time, and that perhaps he could sneak around without her ever finding out.
13 This Woman Watched Her Boyfriend Kiss A Stranger
It can be difficult to sit there and watch your significant other flirt with another person, so you can imagine how crazy it is to have to sit there and watch them kiss another person as well - and a complete stranger, at that! That's exactly what this woman had to do when she asked To Catch A Cheater to help find out if her boyfriend was being unfaithful.
All it took was a few compliments about his physique, and her boyfriend was caught, hook, line, and sinker. When he was asked whether or not he had a girlfriend, his response was “No,” and it's very possible that he in fact, that he was no longer in a relationship after that video was shot, because his girlfriend did not seem pleased by his behaviour at all.
12 It's Safe To Assume That The Wedding Is Off
A man wanted to put his fiancé to the test before they got married, to see if she was truly in love and faithful to him. Unfortunately, she didn't seem like she was all that interested in being a faithful fiancé - much less a wife - when she was greeted by the man hired to be a decoy in this video. She was immediately taken by the man who approached her, and he could not hide his disappointment behind the scenes.
After he was shown the evidence, he seemed as though he was definitely calling off their wedding, because he felt deceived. However, after giving it some more thought, he said that he was willing to hear her out, and that if she was truly sorry, that he'd reconsider, because he had a hard time meeting people before he met his fiancé, so he wasn't willing to give up that quickly.
11 This Aggressive Woman Was Pulling Out All The Stops
This woman's boyfriend, a plumber, was sent to the home of a decoy, and the decoy was anything but subtle about her intentions. While he was just trying to do his job, she was aggressively coming onto him, even offering to pay for his services through some unconventional means. However, he said multiple times that he wasn't interested, and that he was, in fact, in a relationship, and so it would be inappropriate to get involved with a customer.
Despite this, though, the decoy continued to try and seduce him, to no avail. The strangest twist is that his girlfriend didn't seem too relieved that he didn't take the bait, and said multiple times that they'd still need to have a long talk because she could see “a look” in his eyes that suggested that he might have wanted to take that woman up on her offer - even though he didn't.
10 This Woman Tried To See If Her Husband Was Interested In Younger Women
Suspecting her husband of cheating, because he hadn't been intimate with her for a while, this woman asked To Catch A Cheater to use a younger woman as a decoy, because she suspected that her husband was searching for a younger woman to have an affair with. The decoy was quite aggressive in the way she came on to the man, and for a moment, it looked like he was going to take the bait.
However, he actually became upset and told the woman to leave him alone. This turn of events did not have the desired effect, and the wife immediately wanted to try again with a different decoy. Her reasoning was that if he didn't take the bait with a beautiful, younger woman, what chance did she have to seduce her husband, who hadn't wanted to get physical in a long time?
9 This Guy Tried To Get In Touch Through Instagram
It's often disheartening to watch these videos and see people's significant others straight up lying in order to continue flirting with someone. In all the videos, there is usually a point where a decoy will ask if someone's involved, and unfortunately, even though they definitely are, that answer is usually “No.” For this woman, her boyfriend would not be the exception to a very unfortunate rule.
He was trying to connect with a woman who he was flirting with by adding her on Instagram, so they were perusing each other's feeds, which for him, included photos of his girlfriend. When she asked him if the woman in the photos were his girlfriend, he responded by saying that it wasn't, and that it was actually his sister. Needless to say, his girlfriend wasn't too please about that.
8 Cheating Turned Into A Proposal
People are always trying to get creative with marriage proposals, because they want to make the moment as special as possible for them, as well as for their (hopefully) future fiancé. However, you don't often hear about people turning a show about people being unfaithful to their partners into an opportunity to surprise someone with a proposal. That's exactly what this man did when his girlfriend asked To Catch A Cheater to test her boyfriend.
At first, she thinks that he's exchanging his used printer for a raunchy favour from a woman who he met online. She even watches as the to of them enter his house and shut the door. However, as she's ready to call it quits and asks to have the video shut off, he comes out and looks at the hidden camera and tells her to turn around, and there his is, IRL, with a ring, asking her to marry him.
7 "I Don't Have A Girlfriend - Today… "
This video is disturbing in a few ways. Of course, it's always cringe-worthy to watch someone in a relationship openly lie and seem like they're about to cheat on the partner. However, it's even more distressing to watch someone do it while they're out with a friend who more than likely knows that their friend is in a relationship. That's exactly what happened when the decoy asked this man if he had a girlfriend. His response was “I don't have a girlfriend - today.” He then said that he was just kidding, and that he actually didn't have a girlfriend at all. He then encouraged the decoy to give him her number so that they could get together and hang out, all while he was being secretly filmed, not knowing that his actual girlfriend was watching behind the scenes. Yikes.
6 This Guy Did Not React Well To What He Saw
It isn't uncommon for people to have negative reactions on To Catch A Cheater. Can you blame them - they're watching their partner actively try to cheat on them in real time. It's likely that anyone who witnessed that wouldn't be too pleased, to say the least. For this man, however, he was not at all having it, and became enraged when he saw his girlfriend exchange phone numbers with another man.
After watching the video, he couldn't believe that his girlfriend would do such a thing, and determined that anyone who could act like that must not be a good person. He was extremely upset, and decided that he absolutely didn't want to be in a relationship with someone who thought nothing about cheating on their partner, especially because she seemed all too happy about making plans to hang out with another man.
5 This Guy Doesn't Seem Bothered By His Girlfriend's Actions
Watching a video of your significant other flirting (and maybe cheating) with another person can be really tough for a lot of the people who appear on To Catch A Cheater. However, for one guy, he almost seemed unbothered by it all. He watched his girlfriend chat up another man from the gym, at first, talking about getting some help from a personal trainer, which lead to the decoy saying that he could help her and be her personal trainer. The flirting was very overt, and there was even some touching of biceps and the two exchanging numbers to meet up at a later date. However, none of this seemed to affect her boyfriend too much. While he didn't seem thrilled about their interaction, he didn't think she'd cheat, so he wasn't too upset.
4 This Was A Very Intimate Yoga Session
Here's another scenario where the gym has proven to be a very tempting place for someone who is already in a relationship. In this video, the boyfriend was the one who asked To Catch A Cheater for a decoy to try and seduce his girlfriend. They brought someone in who helped her during a one-on-one yoga and stretch session, and lets just say that the whole thing got a little too close for (her boyfriend's) comfort.
As the two were getting close on the mat, they were also flirting quite obviously with each other the whole time, and as her boyfriend watched behind the scenes. As the two began to make plans to meet up, his girlfriend did mention that she had a boyfriend, but didn't argue the suggestion of hanging out one-on-one when the decoy explained that he was only interested in hanging out with her alone.
3 This Girl's Boyfriend Seems To Like Cougars
You often hear of people saying that they're afraid that their partner will leave them for a younger, better-looking person. However, people don't typically worry about being left for an older person, as people generally think that others place more value on youth, and that attractiveness and youth go hand in hand. Unfortunately for one woman, her boyfriend has a thing for older women.
The decoy hired by To Catch A Cheater was an older woman, and her boyfriend was all over it. His girlfriend watched as he shamelessly flirted with an older woman - claiming to be single, and getting touchy-feely the whole time. He even went as far as getting physical and grabbing her behind. You can say that his girlfriend was extremely unhappy with what she witnessed.
2 This Guy Was Picking Up Women At Church
In one of the most upsetting instalments of To Catch A Cheater, one woman watched the father of her child casually chatted up a woman outside of their church. He also seemed to have forgotten that he was already involved with someone, as he denied having a girlfriend when he was asked by the decoy.
The worst part of this scenario, is that his girlfriend was actually pregnant with their second child, as she watched him flirt and exchange numbers with another woman. She was so upset by what she saw that she was contemplating terminating her pregnancy, convinced that she couldn't be in a relationship with someone who was a cheater, and as well, did not want to raise yet another child with someone who was obviously not committed to his family.
1 This Guy Was Enticed By Twerking
Everyone has certain physical attributes that they're attracted to. Some people really like athletic physiques, and others are really attracted to certain facial features, like a specific eye colour. For this cheating boyfriend, his interests were in someone's ability to twerk. As his girlfriend watches the hidden camera footage, you can see him casually commenting on the decoy's assets, as both of them giggle and flirt with one another.
As they begin to talk about the possibility of hanging out, she repeatedly mentions twerking for him, first, right there in the store. However, they soon both agree that twerking would be better suited in a more private setting, like maybe one of their apartments! They soon exchange numbers and both head off on their merry way, with plans for a one-on-one twerk show.